By Sulz, Dave on March 19, 2020.
Many people are likely feeling anxious as fallout from the COVID-19 pandemic throws their daily lives into turmoil.
That’s a perfectly normal response under the circumstances, says a registered psychologist at the University of Lethbridge.
“These are really unsettling times for everyone,” says Jennifer Ellis-Toddington, the U of L’s manager of counselling and career services. “It’s hard to know what to do today, let alone tomorrow.”
When life is so unpredictable, as it is right now, anxiety increases – and that’s a perfectly reasonable reaction.
“You should probably be anxious, but you can be anxious and still function,” says Ellis-Toddington.
One of the keys is to keep things in perspective and remembering “we’re all in this together… not just Lethbridge, not just Canada, but everyone around the world.”
It can be helpful to reshift our focus away from the scary plight before us and live life in manageable, bite-size pieces.
“It’s important to take it one hour at a time and focus on things you can control,” she says.
That involves taking steps to create structure even in the midst of a loss of our normal routines.
“By creating structure and routines, people do much better in terms of mental health. It helps if you can know what your day looks like.”
That might involve making a list of tasks to tackle at home, or reading you want to catch up on, or hobbies to engage in. In some cases, it might require some creativity for families to fill the time “when most of our go-to stuff is cancelled,” says Ellis-Toddington, who adds playing board games, like in the “old days,” might be a good option.
While social distancing is advocated during the pandemic, it’s still important for people to main connections with others, perhaps by social media or phone.
“Social support is a huge protective factor in any mental-health struggle,” she notes.
It’s also helpful to get outside every day. Exercise, sunshine and fresh air are all effective ways to boost your spirits and ease stress levels.
For many, the stress might involve jobs that are impacted by the crisis, but there’s solidarity in knowing that many others are facing the same challenges.
“We’ve got to find a way through it, all of us together,” Ellis-Toddington says.
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